The wife husband relationship is a complicated one and often, couples fail to understand it. This is the key for your relationship to function well. Even if only one of you understands it, a marriage can still be saved.
It begins with understanding that men and women are not only different physically but psychologically, that is, mentally and emotionally as well. For instance, they both deal with their problems differently. Women are more likely to talk about their problems with friends to get advice and help than men.
That is why women are more likely to find solutions to their problems. They open up and look at the problem from various angles, expressing themselves.
Men prefer to remain silent instead of discussing the wife husband relationship with others. The reason behind it may be that they like to think over it before saying anything and try to look for the solution on their own.
This is where the trouble lies when trying to save a marriage. The husband thinks that she should be figuring it out herself instead of talking endlessly and dramatizing things while the wife thinks that the husband does not care about the problem and seems unconcerned about sharing it with her.
A woman can talk because she simply wants to voice out her opinions and ideas. It is not always easy to ask for advice and help. On the contrary, men tend to talk about something when they want an answer.
Other women appreciate what she is talking about, even if it is just to vent or to pour something out of her chest. Some women just associate themselves with the conversation for understanding and for compassion. The woman feels that the man simply wants to end the conversation as quickly as possible because he gives a brief and short solution of what should be done. In his mind, he is helping the latter.
It can also be that, in some cases, women tend to keep quiet while men like to talk about their problems.
