Is your relationship boring? Is he the same as he used to be at the beginning? Is everything ok with your relation? And what's more important, are you satisfied of your relationship? Well, if not, instead of dumping up your boyfriend, why don't you get him back , as he used to be at the beginning?
You see, after many years of relationship with somebody, most of the people get to be a little bit bored of the relationship - or maybe of their life, but they can not realize it!-.
Have you ever been told "You are not the same as you used to be, and therefore, we can not be a couple anymore."? If yes, then you must know that this thing really hurts.
Luckily, this thing can be prevented. This way, instead of dumping up your boyfriend, you will get back to you the man you have felt in love with, some time ago.
So, what do you have to do? Basically, you just have to be you.
How do you do that? Well, think at your boyfriend and try to see what you do not like about him. And because men are really cowards when it comes to couple problems, you should take this matter in your own hands and try to make him act in consequence.
As a matter of fact, start talking with him about the beginning of your relationship. Talk about the gests he used to make, about the places you were together and so on. Something in his head - if he is a little bit intelligent, of course- will act like a trigger and it will make him a little bit more careful with you.
Also, try to take a few days off, just with him. Leave some few days out of the town, and try to forget about your problems. Meanwhile, behave like you were teenagers again. Kiss, hug each other, do what you want to do, without the fear of being judged. In a simpler way: feel free to be you, and make him feel the same.
Next, you should try to forget about commitments, and also, try to make him to do the same thing. Why? Men are, usually, afraid of commitments because most of them like total freedom. Therefore, for a while, let the things happen, without thinking at the future too much. It will have a positive effect upon your relationship, guaranteed.
If you try the above tricks, you will definitely regain the relationship you once had.
