Writing was never my first choice this piece of emotion came out in my frustration to the surrounding world of adultery and corruption. The sorrow that I see around me everyday has compelled me to pour down my feelings in writing.
Children are an asset that parents are proud of possessing, there little demands are taken with a lot of importance and made the big issue of the monthly, family agenda. God has made for us a beautiful world that all of us, should show respect to. How awful! It would have been to live alone. To live like robots who have no feelings or emotions, whatsoever.
The unconditional love that parents shower on their children can’t be measured nor can it be weighed. It’s an endless ocean of love and devotion. We all have been blessed with this undoubting love and care. There life long struggle from childhood to adulthood and then finally as matured human beings; they have been there to shield us from every problem that come are way. At the end of the day why then this indifference to this beautiful, unselfish love of theirs? .
Its not a story of one but many families that bring me to shame, people who have dedicated their life’s to the cause of their family, get in return loneliness and pain of being abandoned by their own loved one’s. Children perhaps have on their part a thousand reasons of not staying with parents after marriage. But no excuse is good an excuse to hurt the people who have done the most for you.
When we encounter with a happy family, we feel glad to see them. Similarly a visit to the old home makes us sad; parents don’t willingly go there, they are compelled too. It’s not possible for everyone to stay alone in there homes .With old age loads of ailments come along. Medical checks and health care becomes an important issue.
Leaving them alone, I do not believe could make any of us happy. Then I should say parents should abandon there children at birth. Why then they take responsibility of their children, they’ll always become someone else’s property after marriage. And leave behind parent’s, to per sue there own comfort. When we are children, they take care of are needs so they are good, when we grow they suddenly become interfering and none accommodating.
However, it’s a part of a section of society whose actions are a sad figure. But there are children who give parent’s the best comfort and support they require. Maintaining a balance between the two important parts’s of your live is very important. It adds up to one being a good human being.
I do not blame all but some have surely, disappointed their parents but also values and emotions that we stand for. It’s sad to see that people realize their doing only when it’s too late. There will always be indifferences in opinions. But it does not mean we live separate lives from our loved ones.
Hence, it’s my earnest request to the reader’s, who have not been comfortable with there parents around, sort out your problems and support them, at this point in life they require you the most.
Priyanka Dey.
