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My marriage was going great, and we were both so happy...or so I thought. It was the day my daughter left to college that my husband came up to me and said, "Love, I think we need a break". I was stunned! But I knew a divorce was going to come next. So before it happened, I went on mission trying to figure out how to get my husband back.
As I looked for answers, this is what I realized:
Although I still loved him and wanted to learn how to win my husband back, I saw that I needed to stay strong and not let him get the upper hand. During our separation I did not want to be the one crawling back to him, so I decided to play hard to get, and make him realize that he was the one losing out here, not me.
In learning how to win your husband, if you find he still loves you, then it is best to get him talking about the marriage. But during this sensitive time, where he needs space to think seriously about the marriage, just keep the conversation casual before you start a fight. The odd phone call, text message or email are great ways of reminding him how much he needs you, without being overbearing.
And if you play your cards right, he may start showing some more interest in you, giving you the opportunity to remind him of the fond memories you share. In figuring out how to get my husband back, I did not talk about the any of the bad times we had, or about any hard feelings I had towards him. If I had, it would have given him a good reason to finalize the divorce.
If your husband gives no reaction to the memories you tell him about, then don't give up hope just yet. It could either mean he has lost chemistry with you, or that he needs more time to think about the relationship, so give him all the time he needs. But, if he does react and shows some signs of interest in you, then keep on bring up those good memories and remind why he needs this marriage, until you get husband back.
As I learned how to win my husband back and notice his signs of interest or affection towards me, I began to let him know how I felt about divorce. I expressed my feelings and thoughts with him, but not in a weak, clingy, needy way. When you notice your husband showing signs of renewed interest, then tell him exactly how you feel, and see how he responds. If his body language tells you no, then take a step back and do not try force the issue.
When I went through a separation and faced divorce, these are some of the lessons I learned in figuring out how to get my husband back. If your husband is about to leave you, then I suggest you some of these things out, and seek expert advice if you need more help. But the idea is never give up hope, stay strong, work out your differences, and see divorce as the last resort.
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