I always though that I have a perfect marriage. My husband is a successful businessman and my kids attend an exclusive and expensive private school. You can almost say that I have a good life. It was a surprise when my husband wants a divorce all of a sudden.
I had to think of ways to make my husband love me again!
It was quite a rude awakening, when my husband told me that he wants a divorce. I never imagined that this time will come. I always thought that we will grow old together and play with our grandchildren hand in hand. What a slap in the face when he said that dreaded word. DIVORCE!
My husband wants a divorce for so many reasons. He said that I don't have time for him anymore. He said that I stopped being a wife when I became a mother. My time and energy are all spent on my children, and nothing's left for him anymore.
Another reason why my husband wants a divorce is that I stopped taking the time to care for myself. I became fat and seldom took the time to dress up. I'm always on my apron, cooking or doing the laundry. During those times when we get to go out with our friends, I would usually grab wear pants and loose shirts, to hide my unwanted bulges. He complained that it's been a long time since he saw my legs peeking from under a skirt.
Lastly, my husband wants a divorce because he feels like he cannot talk to me anymore. The only conversation that we have lately, are about the bills, the kids, and the bills! He said, I stopped asking him about his day, instead I only ask him when he can get a raise.
Why didn't i noticed that before?
I need to earn my husband's love back before it's too late!
As I listen to all his reasons, I realized that my husband missed the real me. Not the wife, not the mother, but the ME he fell in love with. Then I finally understood what he is asking. My husband is not asking for a divorce. But my husband wants me back. He wants the girl that he married back.
