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What makes it so hard when your relationship falls apart is that you know love does not come along everyday. When you met and fell in love with the man that is now your ex boyfriend, you thought it would last forever, and you had no reason to have doubts until he suddenly said he needed more space. You could not believe your ears. Here was this man that had always been so attentive and kind, tearing your heart to ribbons and acting as calm and cool as could be. What happens to cause a man to change almost overnight? You miss him so much and you wonder will your ex boyfriend miss you?

The fact that you think this happened overnight could be part of the problem. A man does not decide overnight to breakup with the woman he once was madly in love with. It is usually a long and painful process for him before he makes up his mind that he is not happy in the relationship and things are not going to get any better. He probably gave you plenty of warning signs, but you were too much in love to notice.

The fact that you were so in love might have caused you to become too comfortable in the relationship and therefore became boring. You were always at his call and eager to please him. He should have appreciated this and for a while he no doubt did. But men like a challenge. When a relationship becomes dull and mundane, they are apt to seek greener pastures. When this happens, the best way to get your ex back is to make things more interesting and challenging than he bargained for. By breaking up with you, he might have been trying to send you a message that he felt smothered by your attentiveness. So the opposite of attentiveness is to ignore him.

To ignore him, you must cut off all contact with him and make him think you have disappeared. You need to do the opposite of what he expects. When he broke up with you , he was expecting you to be calling and emailing him constantly, telling him how much you needed him and wanted him back. I do not know what men expect to accomplish by doing this because it just makes you smother them more. So, if he wants to be left alone, do it. Ignore him completely.

When you ask will your ex boyfriend miss you, the answer is 'yes' and here is how you can make it happen. Act as if he had a contagious disease and avoid all contact with him for a few weeks. This will surely get his attention and make him see how important you are in his life. He will try to contact you, but play his game. Do not take his calls and do not answer his emails or text messages. This will not only make him miss you, but he will come begging for a second chance.


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