It is not easy for you and your guy to get back after a breakup. You both may have said and done some very hurtful things to each other. You may be sorry for the breakup and you just want to know how to"win guy back".
I will discuss a proven plan that works like magic on how to win guy back. It is called "The Magic of Making Up" .
But first I want to give you a few tips that you can follow to have him back again. So many people don’t succeed in winning guy back. It's not really our fault. No one ever handed us an instruction book when we first started dating that taught us how to handle a breakup. Much less, how to win guy back after a breakup.
If you want to win you guy back then these 5 simple steps should help achieve your goal:
1. The first tip which will help you and your guy to get back is to get your head straight.
You need to get rid of the negative thoughts. You have to stop feeling sorry for yourself. You have to be willing to be strong.
Don't let your emotion and especially depression keep you down. You can't achieve a goal, if you can't keep your emotions in check and your mind clear. Negative thoughts are destructive behavior.
2. Accept that the relationship in its prior form is over.
All the wishing in the world isn't going to allow you to go back in time and change the way things happened. You can't let your mind keep wandering into the past.
If you are going to win guy back you need to focus on what is going on now. If you realize that the relationship of the past wasn't perfect you're heading in the right direction and laying the foundation for you and your guy to get back.
Remember you are most likely glossing over all the bad stuff that happened. Think about this; the relationship didn't get broke in a day. Don't expect to be able to fix it in a day either.
3. Don't pester your guy.
Guys just don't like it when girls become obsessive about them.
You may want to seek comfort by hearing his voice or seeing his face, but if you really want him back, you must back off for a while.
Don't continuously call him, text message him, email him, or go to his place or where he hangs out just to see him. Give him time to realize he may have made a mistake. He may begin to actually miss you. If you blow it, you may have a tougher time winning him back.
4. Become an object of desire.
If you can, get some new makeup. Get some new clothes. Get a new hairstyle. If you've picked up a few pounds, start exercising and eating healthy. When you look good on the outside, you're going to start feeling better about yourself on the inside.
By feeling good on the inside you will be confident and happy. When you're confident and happy, you will project this image to others. You will become an object of desire to men. This includes your and you chances to win guy back is greatly improved.
5. Take it slow.
If you followed steps 1-4 your guy at some point will probably get in touch with you. Imagine his surprise when he sees the “new” you from step 4. He will probably be sorry that he broke up with you. Keep your physical contact with him to a minimum, if you do see him.
Seeing you looking your best and seeing that you've become confident and happy will make him desire you. If you limit your physical contact with him, this will drive him crazy. It will probably help to ensure that you don't just jump back into a relationship only to breakup a short time later.
These tips may not be easy for you to do at first. You may want to give in and call him or see him, but you have to resist the temptation.
These tips are just starting points to win guy back.
If you really want to "win guy back" you need to get a proven plan. That proven plan is an excellent e-book titled "The Magic of Making Up" and it helped over 6,000 people in 52 countries.
People just like you that had suffered through a breakup of their relationship and thought it was impossible to get back together with their ex.
You need to take action now if you want to"win guy back"!
