So your boyfriend dumped you forsome no good two timing… well, the list could go on and on. The fact is that he is with her and you want to win him back. Maybe you have tried talking with him already or even telling him some rumors that you might have heard about her but he's having none of it and he is still with her.
The truth is that once he has made up his mindand left you for another woman the chances of you winning him back by trying to talk some sense into him is pretty much fruitless. As a matter of fact, trying to talk to him at all concerning his decision not only won't bring him back it will drive him further away and into the arms of the other woman.
So what can you do to win him backand destroy his relationship with the other woman? The best and easiest way to drive them apart is through resentment and contempt. By basically remaining in his life and keeping your relationship with your ex alive you will eventually drive them apart. By being his friend and appearing to have no other motive other than to be his friend you will slip back into his life and eventually get that opportunity that you are dying for to win him back.
So how do you weasel your way back into his life?Give him a little bit of time and space to begin with. Allow the dust to settle and do not contact him during this time. Typically a couple of weeks to a month should be sufficient. During this time you can also work on yourself and get yourself looking even hotter than he remembered you. Maybe work out a little bit and buy yourself some new clothes. Maybe get your hair done and work on your tan.
Once this cooling off period is doneyou can contact him and tell him that you were thinking of him and hoping that he was ok. Tell him that you do miss him but the thing that you miss most is his friendship…. You feel as if you have lost your best friend and that you hope that the two of you can remain friends. You can share with him quickly any positive things that have been going on in your life but keep the conversation short. You should be the one to end the call and tell him that you'll talk to him later but that you have to run.
From time to time contact himwith any news that you might have about your family or any mutual friends and ask him how he's doing. If he begins to talk about his new girlfriend try not to react. Remember, this is a long term tactic to winning him back so you are going to have to grin and bear it. If you are open and nonjudgemental then eventually you will be the one that he comes to when things begin to get rough between the two of them.
There is a very good chancethat eventually his new girlfriend will find out about your continuing relationship with your ex and she isn't going to like it. Chances are she will tough it out for a while but before long she will try to tell him that she doesn't like him talking to you. Of course you will be the better woman and you will take it all in stride. You will act in a mature fashion and deny having any ulterior motives. You just want to be friends with someone that was once a very important part of your life. Nobody has to know that you are really wanting to win him back in the long run.
Keep in mindthat this is a long term last ditch method for getting your boyfriend back from another woman. There are other techniques that you can use but when all other methods of winning him back have proven ineffective this method does work and will allow you to both drive a wedge between your ex and his new girlfriend and give you the opportunity to win him back in the long run.
