Can there ever be a more testing experience that working at winning your ex-lover back ? At first you do the intuitive thing: you beg and plead. You let them know how this is tearing you to pieces. Depending on the other, you'll either be told swiftly and expressively where to go. Or viewed as an object of pity and ignored. In other words there's no product.
Vital points
But deep down you knew there was a way to win love back into your life or you and I wouldn't be in a communication right now. So not only is there a path back, I'm glad, your feet are on that path.
We'll go swiftly over some vital points to take especial note of. Points which if not attended to will scupper for good of winning love back.
The first point we've touched on. That of, in effect pestering your ex. We could spend the next few minutes telling you more of what is wrong with that strategy. In the long history of the human race, for sure some successes must have been notched up doing this. It will not have been many.
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One of the first things it does, seeing you're the one doing the begging, is that it puts your ex above you. And unless they're a saint they'll take advantage. You need first to give them a bit of space. When you both stand back from the situation it gives you a more balanced perspective on things.
You'll see more clearly what you mean together and even the ‘silliness' of you splitting if it is the wrong action To go ahead and work through the same problems with another. Throwing yourself at them immediately isn't the smartest course.
Having fun
A smart move to make now, and in fact in all times of stress is frankly what could be called, disparagingly, displacement activity. It might be termed getting out of yourself. Get into a different environment mentally.
And while you're at it, why not have fun? Lose yourself in it. Imagine how muchmoreenjoyable to meet and know the new you! It will be too. Just steer clear of your old haunts for a bit. Or it'll throw you back, and too soon, into the old you, and this major problem you're handling now...
Please listen
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