Whether your relationship is a happy one or one that is in trouble, this advice can help you get your relationship back to a thing of happiness, sex and intimacy.

Some would say that to manage a relationship like a business is cold hearted. Managing it entirely with your emotions is foolhardy. Instead, manage your relationship like a budget. Learn why this makes the most sense!

I once heard a pastor talking about a relationship being much like a bank account. He said that...

Some interactions with your significant other can leave you feeling emotionally drained, dejected, and distressed. Those behaviors are not only confusing and hard to accept, but they have the capacity to damage your confidence and self-esteem. Vicious passive aggressive behavior can take its toll on you, slowly altering your personality, until you barely recognize your own actions. You feel depressed, you might cry or yell more often than before, and you feel out of...

Twenty years ago I had a supernatural experience when the Holy Spirit came into my life and I fell madly in love with a woman. I was jailed, injured, and robbed of the custody of my children, all because of love. My parents, church and friends completely abandoned me and made me feel ashamed for being gay. Today I look back at everything I suffered and thank God for everything I learned. God took my persecutions and taught me to look at the world as if it were a multi-faceted game of...

The Point of No Return

When an airplane is taking off, there’s a point in the runway that pilots know as the “point of no return”. Once the aircraft is beyond that point, it’s safer to proceed and take-off than to abort the take-off procedure. Beginner skydivers who stand in the door and look down but don’t jump can never be convinced to stand in the door again. They endured the fright without the joy of the free fall to reward them for the...

Success in marriage does not come merely through finding the right mate, but through being the right mate. ~Barnett R. Brickner

"Marriage"- the word itself triggers the conscience of most of us. Marriage can be defined as a sacred vow where you give your commitment to someone you love. It is a belief that comes out of the heart that you will love your partner for richer or for poorer, in sickness and in health, till eternity. Marriage being an exciting phase of life for...

Etiquette is a guide for behavior, not a law. Use bridal etiquette as guide, do not adhere the rules blindly, as each family and situation is unique and apply your common sense whenever required.

Etiquette to register

Registries are a great way to let people know what sort of things you would like as wedding gifts. But gifts are not mandatory for the guests to bring. Never demand or ask any guests to give you a specific thing.

The maid of...

No one can deny the benefit of preventive medicine. First of all, it's often easier to prevent an illness than it is to cure it--that's why you go in for your annual physical (or why you should). And we all can agree that feeling healthy is preferable to feeling sick. So looking out for potential illnessesbeforethey take over your life is the reasoning behind the medical check-up.

But when was your last relationship check-up?

Life is good or so it seemed, until you wake one day to discover that your relationship has been nuked! Like most, you were completely blindsided by the shock and emotional paralysis of having your partner say the following: "I love you, but I'm not in love with you anymore!" Most women would agree that this is not only a devastating statement, but it's also one of the most bewildering! What exactly can you extrapolate from such a confusing statement? Does he love me or...

Extra Marital Affairs

Affairs can be very exhilarating, exciting, passionate and romantic and stressful. They can also - more very hurting for the other party - be damaging, destructive, cruel, painful. Most of us will fantasize about having an affair, we strive for that extra attention. We want to feel wanted. There are many ebooks on the subject.
We all do a little bit of window shopping, do we not all wish we could be stranded on a desert island with Brad Pitt or...

In year 2006, I was saddled with the social responsibility of signing my good friend into marriage hood as his best man by virtue of my closeness to him. So after the usual introduction ceremony as traditionally required by African culture we preceded to the Registry somewhere in Ilorin, Kwara state, Nigeria. I remember that the first time we here, we concluded the registration process during which the officer in charge requested us to register with items such as biscuits, wine,...