I often hear from wives who are trying to change their husband's mind about the divorce. Some common comments that I hear are things like: "He wants the divorce but I still love him and don't want to be without him." Or, "He's filed for divorce. I still love him and want to save the marriage. Do I have to just accept this? Isn't there anything that I can do?"

The situation is hard enough when you know that you still love your husband but you doubt that his...

Much of the correspondence that I get is from wives who feel sure that their husbands don't love them. Occasionally, I hear from someone who tells me that their husband has never loved them. Recently, I heard from a wife who was beside herself and very upset about the way that her husband has been treating her. He'd been shutting her out, spending less time at home, and was basically just ignoring her as though she didn't exist.

One day she got so frustrated at this that she...

I get a lot of correspondence asking for advice on "giving an indifferent husband space." Much of the time, if the husband has asked for the space and very clearly will accept no other alternative, I usually suggest that the wives comply with this (although I also advocate doing several things to ensure that the "space" works for you rather than against you.) The exception to this though is when you are dealing with a spouse who is indifferent to you or to the...

I sometimes hear from wives who are gearing up to make a last ditch effort to save their marriages. Many times, they are looking for the perfect magical words and phrases to use to tell their husband how sorry they are and to reassure him that things are going to change. Sometimes, they even ask me for help in writing a letter.

I think that they probably intuitively know that they aren't going to get very many chances at this because, since things have already deteriorated so...

In India the most auspicious occasion in anyone's life is Marriage.  Over the recent years the procedure of searching a true life partner has gone through a complete change. Online matrimonial industry is not only seen for business purpose but it also means to be a beautiful path for finding a true life partner. With the help of web we can easily see the rise of matrimonial services. Various number of website are there in the market that assures you with various numbers of...

Selecting the partner with whom you will be spending the rest of your life is quite a challenging task. It is not easy to imagine that you will have to get married to a person simply after meeting him a couple of times. Times have changed and so has everything in this world. People are relying on internet to fulfill almost all their needs. As a matter of fact, in this inter savvy world even the smallest of things is being sold and purchased over the internet. We all know marriages are...

As your marriage progresses with time, watching your wife's feelings toward you change is not easy. Most men marry a woman that is madly in love with them only to find out many years later that her feelings have changed. These are bad circumstance to find yourself in. You do not want to think about divorce at all because you are madly in love with your wife. If you are a husband that is set on saving his marriage, there are things you can do in how to make wife fall back in...

It was a real shock to my heart when I first found out that I fell out of love with my husband. I took this time to do some serious thinking about my feelings and to figure out just what had changed. I had to figure out who had changed. Was it me or was it him? Is there any one thing that has changed his feelings toward the relationship? At this time you should ask yourself, am I the reason I fell out of love with my husband? Also ask yourself is any of this my fault. Did you...

A successful marriage is a two way street. Just like the old saying "if you want a friend you have to be one," being in a marriage is no different. However happy you are before the ceremony, there's something about getting married that can rock the boat. Most couples wobble on honeymoon. Many find that once back home, things aren't going as well as they did before the ceremony. A staggering one in two marriages are also set to fail.  So whether you're a blushing bride or...

One might be tempted to think that power-struggles are a thing of the past-- but anyone who has ever been in a relationship where one is present is fully aware that this concept is as valid, as troublesome, and as potentially destructive in this modern day as it ever was!

Power-struggles go way beyond one person wanting to be the deciding factor in topics of disagreement-- a true power-struggle exists when one partner insists on "running the show." In the worst of...