Crash! Out of a clear blue sky, you're on your own again. All other problems pale into insignificance beside this: How do you get your ex back?

You wonder you didn't see it coming. Not really - well kind-of. And so it goes

You hardly dare think the virtually unthinkable: How do you bring love back into your life? It's not as difficult as it might sometimes appear. Take my word that what it takes isn't screaming genius to get your ex-partner back.

But there...

One of the first things people do is to beat themselves up after a break up rather than simply finding a method to get their ex back . Problems occur in the best regulated of lives.

Opportunity

This may be an unusual take on things but look on the situation for the opportunity that it is. If you never had problems (and believe me you'd be miserable in consequence) you'd never grow. Lick a problem and as overpowering as it seemed at the time, you're that bit bigger for having...

Unfortunately no matter how much a woman cares for her man, they may be driving him into and out of their life. It may be one thing or a combination of things that they do not realize they are doing. Their man could be in love with them, but they just can stay around any more.

Regardless of what the experts say about how a woman should treat their man, they are not always right. The best way to know what can chase a man away is to ask them directly. So what are some of the things...

If you feel your relationship is not doing too well, what can you do about it? Is it possible your relationship is too far gone to save it? Or hopefully you are willing to start early to fix things when signs of trouble emerge. If the relationship has gotten really bad you may be wise to chalk it up to experience learned and get out of it.

Your first step is figure out exactly what is wrong with this relationship. If you do not have a clear picture then you have nothing to work...

The women who contact me may be in different places in their marriages – some are facing a divorce, some are separated, some just feel a distance in their marriage, and for some – the ink on the divorce papers is dry, but all of them want the same thing – they want to get their husbands back.  They want to know the right thing to say, the right way to act, and the right actions to take.

They regret the things that they said or didn't say – the things...

This is the question my wife's brother asked me the other day. Why did you break up was my response when really what I wanted to ask was how could you be such a donut to dump her?

He looked a bit sheepish and told me that he had met this girl at work and she smiled at him. Seemingly she is young, very pretty and looks rather like she belongs in Baywatch. So he, being a he-man type, decided that he had to dump his lovely girlfriend to date this beach babe. Needless to say,...

Do you lie awake at night asking yourself over and over " will I ever get my ex boyfriend back "?  Perhaps you broke up over something relatively silly and now realize that he was the love of your life.

Did he break up with you?  Or did you finish the relationship but now regret it?  If you were together for a long time, it is easy to take a good relationship for granted.  We often don't realize what we have until it is gone.

If you are the only...

So the relationship is over but now you have decided that you want your ex back.  Are your sure it is your ex-boyfriend or girlfriend you are missing and not just having someone special in your life? This is especially important if you were the one who decided to break up.

Most relationships go through a bad patch at some point.  Some of the best marriages have survived problems that would have torn apart less sturdy partnerships.  Relationships are all about give...

Do you care?  Asking yourself the question are these signs my ex wants me back is the wrong way forward.  The real question is do you want your ex back?  If the answer to that is yes, then now all you need is a strategy to actually achieve it!

A lot of people never understand why their relationship ended.  I find it amazing that many people going through a divorce are unable to explain why they are ending their marriage, especially when there are children...

My man believe's he can sleep with whoever he feels like sleeping with and then possibly blame it on the booze or on some partners eroticism. My boyfriend cheated on me in the week of Christmas and all he said for an excuse was that he had one drink too many hence lost control of himself and "senses", besides it was Christmas! I had to endure that for an answer. The problem was that I knew he would do it again as long as he still finds the...